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Be heard. Go deep. Build a life you love.
Helping girls and women find their voices, confidently take up space, and begin to thrive.
You’ve worked really hard for the life you wanted… but this doesn’t feel like ‘it’.
The pressure you put on yourself is starting to feel suffocating. Whether it’s at work or school, with friends, or at home with your family, there’s this sense that you have to do it all—and do it flawlessly. You hold yourself to impossibly high standards, and even when you do something well, it’s hard to take any pride in it because your mind immediately jumps to what could have been better. You give so much of yourself, but somehow always fall short in your own eyes.
Maybe you’re starting to feel like this (and everything else you’ve been dealing with) is more deeply rooted than you originally thought. You know there has to be more to life than scrambling to keep up and feeling unfulfilled in your closest friendships and relationships.
Take a breath. You’re not alone in this anymore.
Specializing in…
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Being a teen girl comes with a lot of pressure from all sides—friends, school, the looming future—and it can feel like no one really understands what she’s going through. If you’ve noticed your teen pulling away, feeling overwhelmed, or getting frustrated easily, she may just need some outside professional support to navigate these challenges. Therapy allows her a neutral space to voice things that may be uncomfortable to share with you, and can help her feel more confident, improve communication, and learn how to build healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
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If your mind is constantly racing with worry, coming up with what-ifs, replaying every interaction, and leaving you feeling overwhelmed, you might find it hard to relax or enjoy life. Therapy can help you quiet those thoughts, feel more in control, and gain a better understanding of how to manage your anxiety so you can start living with more peace of mind and confidence.
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If you or your child are struggling to stay organized, focus on tasks, or manage overwhelming emotions, it may be the result of ADHD. Therapy can help you understand these challenges and build on your strengths—because people with ADHD have a lot of them! Together, we can create strategies to keep things on track, make the most of your talents, and help you feel more in control of your life. You’ll move forward knowing you’re capable and equipped to handle whatever comes your way.
Hi, I’m Dr. Susan Allender.
I want to help you quiet your mind & recognize your worth.
In sessions with me, the most important person in the room (or on the screen) is you. Our work together will be about your story, your experiences, and what you need. I’m genuinely interested in understanding who you are and what’s brought you to this point, which is why I take the time to really get to know you.
My approach blends deep, insightful work with practical tools that can help address immediate concerns, making sure you don’t get overwhelmed and keeping you moving forward toward your goals. I’m tuned in to the details and have ample experience working closely with other providers—like physicians or psychiatrists—to offer you the comprehensive care you deserve.
I’ll ask questions that will help us explore your past and relationships, and over time we’ll uncover the patterns and challenges that may be holding you back.
I’m not just here to listen, though—I’m here to be honest and real, and hold you accountable in a supportive, respectful, and nonjudgmental way. We’ll work together at your pace, and check in regularly on how you feel the work is going. When things get too heavy, I’ll be here to lighten the load with a bit of humor or a gentle change in direction.
Getting started is simple.
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Dive Deep
In the beginning of our work, we’ll spend our time getting to know each other better and building a strong foundation of trust between us. As we continue, we’ll search deeper into your past, exploring relationship dynamics and patterns to gain more understanding of who you are, what you want, and what’s getting in your way.
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Find Healing
After gaining new insights and learning tools and practices that will help manage the struggles you’ve been experiencing, you can make decisions differently, from a place of awareness, and notice the shift that happens naturally as a result. Things that once felt daunting can be less stressful, and you can experience a greater sense of groundedness and confidence.
You deserve the confidence, relationships, & life you want.
Let’s begin the journey toward it together.